The Matrimonial Tree

 

Very few people in the Twin Towns know that just outside the town of Ballybofey, a perfect example of a Matrimonial Tree still stands..

As far back as 1769 the Irish Forestry award system was in place, whereby a farmer who planted Oak, Ash, Elm, Weymouth Pine or Scots Pine on his holding would be rewarded with a medal.

This encouraged many Irish landlords to plant their estates with these tree species.

 
 
 
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An interesting custom at the time among the gentry was the planting of two trees to celebrate an engagement. When the couple eventually got married the two trees were grafted one to the other to form one tree, symbolising the union of the couple.

There is a perfect example of a matrimonial tree on the old Conyngham estate at Summerhill House, Ballybofey.

In the first photograph (top), the grafting is concealed by the heavy foliage but in the second picture (right), taken in June 2002, the extent of the grafting is very obvious and the two trees have become as one.

Closer to the old house, there is a second example of grafted trees (the photograph on the left), showing that in this family, at least two weddings were celebrated in this way.

Did You Know?
William Connolly, Speaker of the Irish House of Parliament in the 18th century, was married to a Katherine Conyngham, whose family held property in Ballybofey.
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Then
Now

Above (left) you can see a picture of Summerhill House, taken in or before 1912. The girl in the doorway is wearing the traditional staff uniform and was undoubtedly a maid at the house.

Older residents of the area can remember a time when Summerhill House was once a magnificent family residence, standing in lush acres of well-tended land, looking proudly down on the townland of Sessiaghoneill and the surrounding areas. Sadly, nowadays only the solid stone shell remains, together with the remnants of what must have been a beautiful walled garden. Rumour has it that the present owner lives in Kenya, and indeed is claimed by some to have turned up briefly in Donegal a couple of years ago...obviously without regard to sentiment. This has to be one of the worst examples of waste and neglect to be witnessed anywhere in the country, and has to be seen to be believed. Anyone brave enough to attempt a visit to the site, be warned! Wear your wellies and take a stout stick, otherwise you could sink without trace into the quagmire surrounding the old house (the above photographs did not come easily...we suffer for our art, so please appreciate).

An Taisce (The National Trust for Ireland)

An Taisce (The National Trust for Ireland) has currently adopted a policy of objecting vehemently to 'one off' housing in rural areas. Basically, what this means is that when residential Planning Permission is sought, even on one's own family land, a member of An Taisce can lodge an objection (even if they live in a different county) and as often as not, can prevent the applicant from obtaining the necessary permission to build. If this policy persists, it can only isolate families and in time, leave our countryside stripped bare of the close community spirit and warmth for which this country is traditionally known. And all this supposedly to protect our environment? Surely it would be more in keeping for an organisation classing itself as The National Trust for Ireland to preserve beautiful old buildings, such as Summerhill House and its close neighbour, Glenmore House / Castle (which has all but collapsed?)

If you agree with our thoughts, then please contact An Taisce's Heritage Officer and say so.

An Taisce Heritage Officer: Ian Lumley
Tel: +353 (0)1 454 9248
Postal Address: Tailors Hall, Back Lane, Dublin 8, Ireland
Email: heritage@antaisce.org
URL: http://www.antaisce.org/

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